Thoughts of a Wanderlusting Dreamer

"Life is a dream for the wise, a game for the fool, a comedy for the rich, a tragedy for the poor." ~ Sholom Aleichem

You know that feeling? When you’re just waiting. Waiting to get home, into your room, close the door, fall into bed, and just let everything out that you kept in all day. That feeling of both relief and desperation. Nothing is wrong. But nothing is right either. And you’re tired. Tired of everything, tired of nothing. And you just want someone to be there and tell you it’s okay. But no one’s going to be there. And you know you have to be strong for yourself, because no one can fix you. But you’re tired of waiting. Tired of having to be the one to fix yourself and everyone else. Tired of being strong. And for once, you just want it to be easy. To be simple. To be helped. To be saved. But you know you won’t be. But you’re still hoping. And you’re still wishing. And you’re still staying strong and fighting, with tears in your eyes. You’re fighting.

—Unknown (via intensifyit)

(Source: w0eis-fran, via toofuckeduptocareanymore)

thin-in-a-healthy-way:

this magical ‘perfection’ you see in magazines ISN’T REAL. You wanna look like that? Take pics and photoshop the fuck out of them. Don’t try to look like that. You’ll only hurt yourself, because it’s not physically possible to look like, essentially, a drawing.
They say art imitates life, but when you think about it, no matter how well the imitation is done, it’s still not the real thing. Retouched magazine pictures are imitation. Do you want to be a second-rate copycat failing to live up to imaginary standards posed in magazines and falsified images, or do you want to be a real, first-rate version of yourself?

thin-in-a-healthy-way:

this magical ‘perfection’ you see in magazines ISN’T REAL. You wanna look like that? Take pics and photoshop the fuck out of them. Don’t try to look like that. You’ll only hurt yourself, because it’s not physically possible to look like, essentially, a drawing.

They say art imitates life, but when you think about it, no matter how well the imitation is done, it’s still not the real thing. Retouched magazine pictures are imitation. Do you want to be a second-rate copycat failing to live up to imaginary standards posed in magazines and falsified images, or do you want to be a real, first-rate version of yourself?

(Source: to-young, via icanhasflatstomachplez)

Rape culture is telling girls and women to be careful about what you wear, how you wear it, how you carry yourself, where you walk, when you walk there, with whom you walk, whom you trust, what you do, where you do it, with whom you do it, what you drink, how much you drink, whether you make eye contact, if you’re alone, if you’re with a stranger, if you’re in a group, if you’re in a group of strangers, if it’s dark, if the area is unfamiliar, if you’re carrying something, how you carry it, what kind of shoes you’re wearing in case you have to run, what kind of purse you carry, what jewelry you wear, what time it is, what street it is, what environment it is, how many people you sleep with, what kind of people you sleep with, who your friends are, to whom you give your number, who’s around when the delivery guy comes, to get an apartment where you can see who’s at the door before they can see you, to check before you open the door to the delivery guy, to own a dog or a dog-sound-making machine, to get a roommate, to take self-defense, to always be alert always pay attention always watch your back always be aware of your surroundings and never let your guard down for a moment lest you be sexually assaulted and if you are and didn’t follow all the rules it’s your fault.

—I might just copy and paste this so I can have this perfect answer ready when people say things like “but how does this “rape culture” actually affect women?”  (via holdmecloser-tonydanza)

(Source: forums.somethingawful.com, via thechocolatebrigade)

The more time you spend feeling sorry for yourself, the more things you’ll have to be sorry about. If you insist on seeing yourself as a victim, you’ll end up experiencing your life as a victim. It doesn’t have to be that way. Because you can choose right now, and every day, to see yourself in a positive, empowering light. The way you see yourself is up to you. It doesn’t have anything to do with the circumstances you happen to be facing. See yourself as the unique, beautiful, creative and effective person you know you are. See yourself as a bundle of positive, inspiring and meaningful possibilities that are well on their way to being fulfilled. See that you are able to successfully handle whatever life sends your way. See that you are able to thrive and grow and make positive meaning out of the world in which you live. See yourself as constantly moving forward through it all, with love and joy and purpose. And what you see, you will be. — Ralph Marston